Any surgery is a somewhat frightening experience; however, dealing with impending brain surgery can be scarier than most since the brain is so vital to mental function and life in general. Patients experience a range of feelings surrounding the upcoming procedure, from anger to anxiety to fear and everything in between. Don't stifle these emotions as they are a healthy part of the coping process for such a significant medical event.
Instructions
1. Ask as many questions as possible. The more information you have, the better you will be able to cope with the idea of brain surgery. Don't be afraid to write down a list of questions prior to your pre-surgery appointment with your neurologist. Ask about what to expect just before, during and right after the surgery. Question the doctor about the risks associated with this procedure and the odds in your particular situation. No amount of questions is too many, particularly when it comes to being an informed patient.
2. Appoint a health guardian in the event that something goes wrong. Because brain surgery is a delicate one, there is a chance that something could go wrong, either fatally or leaving you mentally incapacitated. Should this happen, appoint a close family member or friend to make decisions on your behalf. File legal paperwork appointing this person as your health guardian for this procedure and detail your wishes in writing.
3. Discuss your advanced directive wishes with family members. While you may have a health guardian making decisions for you, it is still a good idea to discuss your wishes with family members. This will limit confusion and negative reaction should decisions be made that they don't agree with. Let them know who your health guardian is and be sure they know that your decisions and appointment of this person are legally binding. Ask them to accept your decisions and focus on providing you with love and support during this challenging medical procedure.
4. Get your personal affairs in order. Depending on the severity of your surgery, it is important to have all affairs in order in the event that the surgery is not successful. This can actually ease the anxiety you may be experiencing regarding the surgery. Leave important papers in an easily found location in your home. Tie up any loose ends with family members or friends. Alert the important people in your life to the fact that you are having surgery. Make preparations for care after the surgery. The more you do ahead of time, the less anxious you may feel about the surgery in general.
5. Talk with a therapist. Because you may experience such a wide range of emotions prior to surgery, it can be hard to make sense of what you are feeling. A licensed therapist, particularly one who deals with patients experiencing serious health issues, can help you work through your feelings and come to terms with your upcoming surgery.
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